Memento
Reflect-Where are you
Where do you want to be
What matters most
Rethink-What do you really need
What's possible
What are your negotiables/non-negotiables
Renew Take some time away from the problem
Look at it in a new light
Take a new perspective
Recommit First recommit to you
To those who are important to you
To your highest and best good
And for all concerned in your circle
Don't worry about what the other side thinks, feels about you
BELIEVE IN YOURSELF AND THE JUST CAUSE